Relational Somatic
Psychotherapy for
Lovers
Feel Alive in Your Own Skin
Sometimes our sex lives are…erm, not so juicy. Maybe intimacy feels like a chore, vulnerability feels unsafe, or you’re navigating healing from challenging experiences, layers of shame, or desires outside of societal norms.
You might be exploring kink, non-monogamy, or simply wanting to reconnect with pleasure and experience intimacy (or, let’s be real—hot, hot sex) that feels right for you, whether solo or with a partner.
Most people who come to me feel dry as the Sahara or, to take this metaphor even further, are avoiding the undiscovered Amazon within. Disconnection can leave you feeling numb and detached—but that doesn’t have to be the story forever.
Do You Feel Numb, Lost, or Guilty?
Does any of this sound familiar?
- You feel miles away from your partner and have no idea how to bridge the gap.
- You avoid intimacy or dating because it feels too raw or uncomfortable.
- You’re worried you’ve lost your spark and don’t know how to find it again.
- You’re terrified this could be the beginning of the end of your relationship.
- You feel betrayed by your own body.
If these sound true for you, I want you to know that you’re not broken, even if there are places within you that feel cracked or fragile. Those cracks are your body’s way of telling a story it didn’t get to finish—and they’re worth tending to.
Reclaiming your sexual self isn’t selfish, indulgent, or frivolous—it’s essential. Your body is wired for intimacy, desire, and pleasure—these are vital ingredients for your life force.
Pursue the Path of Pleasure
It’s possible to feel alive again in your sex life.
Imagine a life where you could…
- Disentangle the past from your pleasure.
- Shed shame about your body.
- Get laser clear about what turns you on—and what gives you the ick.
- Reclaim your sexual self and celebrate it, shamelessly.
- Indulge in intimacy, confidently.
With a somatic-relational approach, I help individuals and couples explore their relationship to desire, pleasure, and intimacy—all in a way that feels safe, connected, and encouraging. I am damn proud to have ample experience working with LGBTQ+, kink, non-monogamous, and sex worker communities. Together, we’ll honor your sexual self and create space for deeper connection, healing, and joy.
For Individuals + Couples
I’ve helped people shed the shame, reconnect with their bodies, and take back their pleasure that is their birthright. My clients rediscover what turns them on—in life and love—and step into intimacy with electric confidence.
Whether you want to work through these challenges solo or with your partner, I can help.
How It Works
Relational-somatic psychotherapy/somatic sexology sessions are 50 minutes and tailored to the needs of individuals, couples, and relationships of all constellations. In each session, we explore the body’s wisdom alongside the dynamics of connection, helping you release patterns that keep you stuck and fostering more authentic, satisfying relationships—with yourself and with others.
Here’s the play by play:
- First, it’s my job to create a space where you can let it all out—no judgment, no shame, just real talk about what’s holding you back.
- By listening to your story and tuning into your body’s signals, we’ll start to disentangle what’s been keeping you stuck.
- We’ll focus on what feels most urgent—whether it’s feeling disconnected, avoiding intimacy, or dealing with toxic shame.
- Together, we’ll get clear on what you really want—whether it’s confidence in your skin, better connection with your partner, or reclaiming your sexual spark.
- Using somatic and relational tools—grounded in the science of trauma recovery—we’ll help you reclaim your true self so you can craft the life you want.
- As we dive in, you’ll start feeling more alive, more electric, and ready to own your pleasure, without fear.
This trauma-informed, relational-somatic approach can help you disentangle nervous system dysregulation from your experiences with sex, sexuality, and relationships, effectively helping you connect deeply to yourself and your loved ones with intimacy, desire and pleasure.
You Can’t Put an Orchid in the Desert
and Expect it to Bloom
Your pleasure is the flower (cheesy, I know but I love nature metaphors), so let’s grow a jungle. Book a 20-minute discovery call today, and let’s explore how I can help you flourish in your sex life.